Monday, January 10, 2011

The write way to right...

In keeping with my resolutions I figured I better write something on here and keep my mind attentive. The more I write, the better I seem to be able to write. Anyhow, I thought I would write about how I write (when it comes to my stories and novels).

Many authors have a certain right way to write. Some snuff mushrooms (not my cup of tea), some write only one sentence in the morning, some let everything just flow out, others are very meticoulous, and so on and so forth.

The most effective way I have found to write is to pray for creativity. A wise professor taught me this in one of my classes when it came to making lesson plans and teaching in a classroom. I have used this for about four years now in everything that I do, but especially in my writing, and it always proves frutiful for me.

Whenever I sit down to work on my novel I always make sure I have spent time in the word and I pray for creativity, and it amazes me what God can do. For my novel, I had an idea of how I wanted it to end, but I just could not think of the right way to put it together. I spent over a year and a half praying for creativity to find that perfect ending and then one day during worship it came to me. I have left holes in some of the chapters in my story because I wasn't quite sure how I wanted that chapter to go. On some of them I was completely at a loss at what to do. Well, now that I'm almost finished, I really need to go back and fill those holes. I prayed and prayed and was able to fill up three of the chapters that I was having such a hard time putting together.

What's most amazing to me is that God would answer a prayer like that. It's not like it is a dire need or anything, but he would still take the time to help me come up with ideas for a story. Not just once or twice, but on a consistent basis for me. I laugh because I feel like I can't even write anything worth while without praying first. I have to have God's help and because of that, I have to give the credit to him when it comes to my writing. It makes me smile because now I can't get a big head and say, "Look what I did," nope, I can only say, look what God helped me do... Just got to love the way he works.

Anyhow, that is how I have found the write way to right in my life. Now praying for writing is righted on my heart now forever, or would that be that praying for righting is written on my heart now forever, or the write thing is to pray and it is righted on my heart in a written sort of way... Too fun... tata for now!

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

HELLO 2011!!!

Every year, I am always sad to pack away all my Christmas decorations. The last few days I have been packing them away in our red and green storage boxes to store away for another year again. Today as I was sweeping up the tinsel (which by the way is a very messy thing to have in the house with a 5 and 3 year old running around), I couldn't help but think that I was sweeping up the last of 2010. I don't know if we have ever been so happy to see the New Year come, and after the worst year that we have ever faced together, we have happily embraced 2011 with a hug! Our 2010 was the equivalent of humpty dumpty except that instead of falling off the wall, we were pushed by people we trusted and were left to pick up the pieces of our shattered lives and had to try and put them back together again. We prayed and prayed and prayed that God would turn our situation around and finally our family joke has become that we gave up praying for 2010 and started praying that 2011 would be our best year yet! I'm excited to see what God is going to do this year!



We do have our "resolutions" this year.



Of course there is the "let's get in shape" resolution. James wanted to do it to quote "be a monster..." and I am tagging along because I like working out together and as silly as this sounds I love hard workouts. James and I borrowed P90x from a relative and did our first workout yesterday. I found it incredibly enjoyable to listen to James huffing and puffing and groaning and moaning next to me. Half way through the workout he was in the bathroom trying not to puke while I was still doing workout sets. Now normally I wouldn't brag, but he kept acting like I wouldn't be able to do it and it was a "guys" workout, so I have been having a little too much fun giving him a hard time. I will say though that I had a hard time keeping up with the push-ups, my goal is to be able to do pull-ups at the end of this 90 day thing ( I think it will take longer though, James said he needed a break today...lol!). The pull-ups are definitely important to me because in grade school, I always missed out on the highest patch (president patch?) for the fitness test because I could not do enough push-ups. Very detrimental for a little girl... I know some of you know what I am talking about! ;)



My own goal is to finish my novel. I am so close to being done, just a few chapters away and it is the most incredible feeling to see it all coming together.My sister who majored in English is in Cambodia until the end of January, and I am hoping to have it completed when she returns so that we can start the major editing process. To help I am going to keep up on this blog because it is kind of like my free writing to get my mind going and it helps to keep me accountable!



Last is to focus on loving people and teach my kids what it means to love others. The one thing that was successful this past year is that James and I did not want our kids to turn into green-eyed monsters during Christmas time. We set up an advent calendar that the kids would open up everyday and receive a small treat. However, mixed in with the treats the kids would every so often receive a slip of paper that had to do with giving to others. One was to go to the dollar store and the kids each picked out a toy for the dollar store toy drive in town. Another time they were each given money to go to the grocery store and pick out food to donate for a shelter. Then another time they were each given money, so while we were out Christmas shopping and we came across a salvation army worker, they would have their own money to put in the bucket. It ended up being a really great thing for all of us, as it turns out working on teaching our kids this taught us a lot too! We are going to make a point out of being intentional about this. I'm not sure how yet, we are praying/keeping our eyes and hearts peeled for ideas, so we will keep you posted.


That is it for now, we will keep you posted! Happy 2011 to all of you and we will be praying that this is your best year yet as well!